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You mention that you remain celibate for 11 years because of your faith. That takes a great deal of commitment and I would think that the mental repercussions would far out weigh the immediate physical satisfaction. For argument’s sake say you do cheat this one time, the problem will still remain and you’ll have the added guilt.
The first thing I would do is try to initiate things with my husband. If he still isn’t getting the hint then sit down and talk about it. I know it’s hard but if you want this relationship to last I don’t see another way. Your needs are natural and are not being met right now.
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I've been married for 24 years and have four wonderful children.
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