I was actually thinking about that as I typed my post...sorry for assuming! I do indeed believe that we (or I) assumed you were a woman because we live in a very patriarchal society that does not frequently represent women in a position of power that isn't sexual. If you're a man, which I am now assuming, my answer still stands. I don't believe you're any weaker than a woman, and I still think it's an issue of insecurity. Whatever is causing it, I hope you'll soon be able to eliminate the undeserved feelings of inadequacy.