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Old May 03, 2011, 12:32 AM
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Wow, that sounds like a great session, ECHOES! So much ground covered, so many things cleared up.

I wonder if the two of you came to any conclusion about her behavior of talking a lot? It seems like she did that last time for a reason--to try to salvage a session in which you had already withdrawn and weren't participating much. But despite this, you preferred she didn't talk a lot, you wanted more silence. Do you think she would do it differently next time?

I really love how you and she compared notes on so many points from the session. Putting your notes together, you now have a complete picture and hopefully you each have better understanding of what happened. I like the discussion of trying to fight it when the mood starts going south. How does one fight it? For the last few months I have had some low moods, and I don't think "fighting it" describes my behavior. It felt more like "watching with dismay" as it happened. I'm not sure what to do in those situations. I know we had sunshine this last weekend and that sure helped a lot. Maybe I should "fight it" by going sun searching when my mood drops. ECHOES, how do you fight it? Does your T have ideas for how to fight it? (One bright idea I had to fight it was to call T to get an appointment sooner than one month, but that didn't work either.)

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Originally Posted by ECHOES
Why are some of our T's so inept at things like email !?
Good question! They seem smart, but then can't do simple stuff like that. As you know, my T has well-developed phone ineptitude. One of my theories is that they deliberately feign incompetence so that we will abandon trying to contact them.

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Originally Posted by ECHOES
Too bad I don't have the guts or I'd reply that I'm 'eager to hear less'!
I laughed so much when I read that.
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Thanks for this!
ECHOES, Suratji