T does know my screen name now, because I showed her a post or two I made here when it was something I wanted her to see, and I didn't want to re-write it in my journaling, so she wanted to know my screen name and I told her......no big deal. She's much too busy to ever bother coming here to search me up and see what I said. And besides, I am transparent enough with her and also don't say much here I wouldn't say to her face anyway!