Well we do netflix we've watched about every new movie out so its not easy finding something new to watch. Lately we been catching up on a show that we both like. Your probably right on the therapist and I will look into that sliding scale. In regard to her crying , I hink its more of that she likes where we are at and maybe I sideline her when I tell her I am unhappy. It shows that we are very different in affection, she can be happy with a quick peck where I feel like I need to be smothered. I may play games and true as it is childish I won't pass up an opportunity to go out into the world and do real things even something simple as going to the store with her, but when I get out of work and she gets out and we are just lounging about, it helps keep me distracted so I'm not being a nuciance to her. I will try some new things to find a way to get her off the couch and spend time with me, I do like the idea of hiking I think I will try to do that soon.