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Originally Posted by granite1
i get this a lot from my T sometimes i dont even know what is right .like i will think she said something and she will say she didnt say anything of the sort.but i dont taqlk much so it is easy to remember what was said unless i am just making things up in my head .she also says i also forget things that she says when i am convinced she never said thwm.crazy making a lot of times in fact most of the time i just let it go and say it is what it is and whatever it is past
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Granite,
Those kinds of experiences are so frustrating, aren't they? Because when we hear something different from what our t's say, then either they were lying, they forgot what they said, we forgot what they said, or there is something wrong with our ability to hear and understand. Sometimes there is no way of knowning for sure what happened. I know that i need to believe my t would not lie to me. If i found out she lied to me, i would have a very hard time trusting her in therapy. So usually i decide that either i heard it wrong, or she forgot what she initially said.