It's nice to read scientific research that confirms what we know already. I have 'interviewed' a few medical doctors to find one I felt compatible with. I refuse to see a doctor who treats me condescendingly or coldly. Luckily I have found a medical doctor with whom I like and trust a lot. Even though I will disagree with her on treatment protocols, she never withdraws her support.

The same goes with the relationship with a therapist. I go on 'gut feeling'. When I first met my T, that was the crucible. Did it feel right being with her? Was I comfortable? Did I like her? All in the first meeting.

I would never see a T with whom I didn't like or didn't trust. The therapeutic relationship, I believe, depends on trust and comfort.

Thanks for sharing this article.