control?????!!!!!
are you kidding????!!!!!
Just having enough control to get him and you to the therapist's office is success in itself
I remember one time, I was pulling my 9 year old in a tobaggan to get somewhere. As an autistic kid who just refuses to move, it was the only way to get places. Anyhow he was rolling out and dragging body parts.. I was so tired and emotionnnally at the end of my rope. A stranger, an older man, actually stopped and started chastizing my son for not listening to his mother.

So everyone doesn't think a stressed out mom is a bad mom.

hang in there
roses