I'd say it's definitely too soon at this point. I would also suggest giving yourself 1-2 years before trying to be this woman's friend. As upset as you were before it would concern me if you were seeing this woman as it could really mess with your head. It may not be an intentional thing but the mind has a habit of playing these tricks on us where we think we'd be ok but when it comes down to it we are really not.

I was with this woman for a little over a year and thought I could be friends with her. Boy was I wrong! I was so jealous and wanted things to go back to the way the used to be...although the friendship was there I often found myself wanting more when I had previously thought I would be fine being just friends.

I just don't want you to get hurt.