Zoo you did a lot in just a half hour!!! also, I'm glad that you are to see her tomorrow hope that is going to go very well.
you are just trying to get the boundaries defined - that is your right - and if you are not to call her in case of crisis or a check in, she'd better be coming up with what is the thing to do - this is part of her job, it's not for you to have to figure out how she is caring for you.

Ohmygoodness ..................... what an afternoon.......... I wish you could have dinner over here tonight, take a load off yr feet (off your mind!) and just relax. I wouldn't push you to say anything. Please can I give you this you are going to be OK. please let us know how you are.