While I do agree that I'm glad you're out of an abusive relationship - I hate to say it, but this is abuse as well. It does sound like there are some issues going. I don't accept cheating ever. ESPECIALLY after being engaged! Why get engaged to someone if you still feel the need to be with other women?

I don't know about the number. My bf and I don't talk about the actual number bc it just creates jealousy. However, these are women he was with before we knew each other.

And justified isn't even a strong enough word. He has absolutely broken your trust in multiple ways. I agree that it's better to be a single mom and not have to worry about your own health (spreading STDs) than to be with a guy who feels fine doing that stuff to you.

I'm so sorry you're going through this. Know that we are here for you if you need us. There are plenty of places there for support of women that are in your same position. I really hope you can figure something out bc getting married to this man is setting yourself up for a lifetime of heartbreak.