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Old May 03, 2011, 07:31 PM
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Please listen to Nomad ~ you're sabotaging your relationship by shooting yourself in the foot. Nomad is right -- men are straight-forward. They aren't like women who talk in circles. Women beat around the bush until they get what they WANT to hear. Men just plain say it STRAIGHT!! He wants to BE with you!! Plain & simple.

Talk to him - he cares about you. He isn't going to judge you, or laugh at you, or condemn you. Tell him your fears and your insecurities. Tell him about your past. Let him know the real YOU so he can understand you better. If he doesn't know who you really are, how can he REALLY get to know you???

He sounds like a good guy - I don't think he's going to jump ship -- give the relationship a chance. Trust him. Hugs, Lee