So my bf is 39 and I'm 22. We met at work and worked together for 3 months before we started dating. We have so much in common have a similar sense of humor and just really clicked despite our age difference...it was not even noticeable any more. Anyway I started living with him and things got serious quickly. everything was good but recently he lost his job and doesn't do anything all day. I go to school and work. He's seems uninterested in anything and is becoming boring to be around. He randomly tells me he's unhappy with me and that I'm the reason his life is like this. Then a couple hours later he acts like everything is fine but I can't forget what he's said. I don't understand. I'm loving and try to encourage him to finish school and find a job he loves. He's been really distant and I don't feel like he loves me anymore. I'm so attached or else I would just leave. What should I do ok confused?