tara, I want to tell you how mmuch I appreciate your postings. Life can be so hard and certain things can be so draining. It is really nice to hear what someone thinks and feels who isn't mixed up in the personal problem.

and I haven't ruled anything out. It is just different because he doesn't have multiple partners.

I observe him and know sex is always in his head. I honestly don't know how he gets through the day. He finds it difficult to think about anything else. He doesn't enjoy flowers for example. Because flowers bring sexual ideas into his head then of course he needs to talk about sex. It must be horrible to miss all the other stuff that is around you because sex takes up all the space in your head.

again tara, thank you so much for sharing
I may figure this out yet

roses