My 23 year old son was determined to be bipolar 2 months ago.. I took it ok then but this past Sunday night I had to call the ambulance to take him to the Er and I live 80 miles from him. his wife thinks its a joke but his psychotherapist assured him his meds were safe. now my son is in a psychatric hospital for how knows how long, his wife is divorcing him and I am a big mess I feel like I didnt do enough for him. I also have a downs syndrome daughter so staying strong is getting very hard for me. The new Psychiatrist told us that the meds the old dr gave him were way to strong and he didnt need that many. He had his stomache pumped and he seems to be in good spirits but I on the other hand am not doing well at all! since I live so far away I cant go see him on his visits so I have friends going since his wife refuses to go! Can someone just tell me a way to deal with this so I wont be in a hospital myself??? My kids are my world