Thanks Wi_Fi

You know, it's not so much a matter of holding a grudge or not (I don't think -- please let me know if I'm in denial about that aspect). It's more that... I guess I forsee much more drama in the future, despite that she says he has changed. I just don't think that people can change so radically in three short months. Here is my chance to avoid getting any more hysterical phone calls from someone who purposefully and mindfully dug her own hole. I miss her a lot, but I haven't really talked to her since September or October at any length, so it's not like our "breakup" is fresh. I've had time to adjust. On the other hand, she has one of my closest friends for the past two years, or so I thought. But what do I need from my friendships? Jokes? She's good for that, but I don't need a close friend for witty banter. Advice? I have a policy about not taking advice from people who are deeper in the hole than I am. Shopping? She lives a couple of hours away from here, and I really can't see myself feeling comfortable hanging out with her and the dude now that all of this has transpired.