How does a grandmother start a relationship to a grandson who is now 23 years old? He searched for his biological father, my son, 2 years ago. He made contact and they sort of have a fb only relationship now.

What do I say to him. I'd love to get to know him. I've had small conversations with his adopted mother via facebook and only 2 very brief messages with my grandson.

His mom says he would love a phone call from my son, they are both 'scared' to get into a relationship. My son has said he is letting his son into his life but isn't going to push. Do I just do myown thing rather than for my son to establish their relationship first, as I've been waiting to happen.

Any adults out there that was adopted and located their birth parents? I'd love to hear from you.