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they maybe felt "close" when they were more depressed and now no longer need you

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Thanks, Fuzzy, this is EXACTLY what I have been wondering. But why should I worry about that? I mean, why wouldn't someone want to be my friend during the good times, too? I think I have a lot to offer as a friend -- I'd want to be my friend if I weren't me... well, you know what I mean. I could look at it from a "well, it's her loss" perspective. I guess I just wish I understood it better, but if I hold onto what my other IRL friend suggested, that my friend is too embarrassed and ashamed to talk to me, then I feel a bit better. I just don't want to be in denial if I contributed to the separation.

Ick.

Thanks, ((( Fuzzy )))