I've got it sorted out... I think it's okay now
I still don't feel to safe about the board and i think i will stick to posting to other people trying to keep things on me down to the minimum...
I did pm DocJohn on the matter but i've send a second pm to clear things up hopefully he reads that one first...

Anyway sorry for the mess... i'm still a bit suspicous on posting but i think it's okay

i've found out for one that we are still owners of our isp account not the persons paying the bills...