I commend you for trying to find something you both enjoy, especially since it does not sound like she is actively working on this with you. Annoyances between partners is normal I think. To this day my husband will walk into the room halfway through a movie and show and ask what is going on. You’ve missed an hour and want me to catch you up in seconds! The DVR helps.
As with any issue in a relationship, you both have to be dedicated to finding the solution. I hope you can find a way to express your needs so that she understand how important this is to you.
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