No! That's not good if he can't remember if your parents are together. I can understand why you want to forgive it, but it's a minus not a plus!

Glad that you are speaking up from your own experience. I hope this T can build up your confidence in that respect and not just have it be "him the expert" and you the person who has things done to them, if that makes sense.

Which is not to say that a challenge isn't good.

Just really glad that you brought up your thing from a year ago. Pay attention to the pain-- it has a signaling purpose.