I mean, I have to disagree COMPLETELY perna, I usually agree with you but... your parents' marital status could presumably affect who you are as a person.

Also names matter. My past T misspelled my name in an email to me and it pissed me off because he wrote it as a another name. Anglicizing it to boot. Like let's say my name was Lu Shen-- and he wrote Lucy (that's not my name.. just an e.g.). It's arguably a huge difference in who you are. That wouldn't piss me off but someone I'm working closely and write checks for on a weekly basis should not be making that mistake.

Anyhooo!! Haha, I don't wanna derail the thread... a T forgetting your cat's name is ok. Them forgetting your marital status or important details of your upbringing is not.