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In any case, ECHOES, I think it's great you know immediately if you are angry! I admire that and am reminded it is an area I still need to work on. You said you would have had a hard time keeping your composure in session if that had happened to you. What does that mean (how would it look for you to not be composed if angry)?
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Rarely do I allow myself to show my anger anywhere, especially in session. That's one reason why my session 2 weeks ago had me pulling back, because I was pulling myself back right along with the anger. But there was once instance a couple of years ago where her cell phone rang and she answered it, and that really set me off and probably for similar reasons - I suddenly felt inconsequential, as if I wasn't even there. A few sessions later, I forgot to turn my cell phone off and .. it rang... and she asked so calmly and nicely "Do you want to get that?". lol Touche!
Sunny, I may be way off, but it seems like I've noticed before that when you do bring up anger, it seems that you very quickly minimize it or downplay it in some way. Like you have to take it back for something happens.