I met my Ts hubby before they divorced. I found him to be weird. I know she has a child and grandchild... Personally I am just glad I don't have to live with her! (unless maybe I was a cat).
My massage T has two college age kids. They seem to be good kids and I love seeing her with her daughter as they have a beautiful relationship. I have never met her son or seen them together but know they are close. I love to see how her face lights up when she talks about her kids and how proud she is of them.
There is a lot of overlap in the people my T and massage T are friends with. I really enjoy that community of people and hope to be a part of it some day even if I don't get to be friends with T. We have been to a few of the same events. Even sat with her and her hubby before she was my T. I really like it even if we don't interact other than a hug and a "Hi".