I'm not jealous of my T's anything. She seems nice.

In the past, YES!! It makes me feel bad and I'm not proud of even THINKING of my t in a non-office context because it feels like invading their (imaginary) privacy. But I would absolutely be jealous, and it went both ways.

I was jealous that my T was off giving these people (his family!!!) this profound security.

And I was jealous to think of the people who got to express that love back.. who had valid (non crazy) reasons for feeling it.

The idea of not being in the loop drove me crazy!

Like, hmmm love..... something that's going on.... over there...

Oh and yes I do know 1 person in common with my old T but not that well and very rarely see them.