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Originally Posted by rainbow8
I think everything can be said, but it doesn't mean it's worked on or worked through. There's a difference. Telling is important, but then exploring it can happen. So, you can be at a plateau in the telling everything, but still have more work to do.
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Rainbow said exactly what I was thinking. Once you've told your T everything, then comes the point of working out what it all means and how it affects you.
I do think that sometimes, after a big revelation, it helps to take a step back, let it all settle in, maybe have a light session with T. Then, you can go back and say "okay, now what. I shared this really big thing, now what do we do with it."