My T is married with a son, about 9 or so. She talks about them from time to time, tells little stories, makes her family seem real to me. I appreciate that. I have no jealousy or envy or any negative feelings toward them at all......what I think about are T's friends, because there was once a time when I would have loved to be her friend someday. But I am content to have the relationship I do and just think that T's family and friends are fortunate to have her.....and I am glad she has them.