Every since me and m partner started sharing a bed, and the nights he's not at mine or i'm not there, i have difficulty sleeping. I didnt think it could be possible but when i go to bed it takes me ages just to fall asleep. I've tryed putting a pillow beside me to cuddle, but it doesn't feel the same. When i have nightmares i have always had to have someone in my bed and if i wake up during the nightmare i have to at least have some body part touching theirs. Why do people have sleeping troubles when there spouse isn't there? before i met him i didnt have a sleeping problem, maybe its his fault haha.