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May 06, 2011, 07:13 AM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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I have to agree with you. I do not like the 'porn' stuff either, and it was always an emotional and mental thing with me too. (I'm a widow, so I'm talking in past-tense LOL)
Why not try different rooms? It doesn't have to be in the bedroom - I assume you have no kids? Sometimes it can be exciting if you're somewhere other than the bedroom. if you have a garage, put the car in it, and get in the back seat -- that's kind of interesting. LOL
I have to agree that these "nooners" aren't conducive to a relaxed atmosphere - you're too concerned about getting back to work - that wouldn't work for me either. It's fine for men - but not for alot of women. 
Try to relax. This will work itself out as long as you both love each other and are patient with one another. You may have to stroke his ego a bit. He sounds a bit unsure of himself. God bless. Hugs, Lee
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