I am so confused that I have no idea what to do. Last night my boyfriend confessed that he is not going to get tenure from his university and therefore will have to leave not only this town but also the country as he is Canadian. I asked what about me if we are still together and he basically said he would not want to drag me into his misery-translation he does not care about me enough to bother. I am not in love with him and I doubt we have a long term future but I do care for him and we do have a good time most of the time. But he is also unable to communicate his feelings with me, cannot make plans more than a day in advance, never compliments me (even though his friends do in front of him) basically I should not be in a relationship with him because it is not going to amount to much aside from me being hurt. But I do like spending time with him and there are not a lot of guys my age in this town. I would be very lonely if I did not have him to spend time with-but at the same time he is causing me a lot of frustration with his inability to communicate or make me feel like he even cares about me. I should just walk away now but I am afraid to.