... just wanted to add that I can relate. I have some old friends that wanted to do a bi-yearly get together next month (stay over in a hotel and all that). I haven't been in the best place and I just started a new medication and have felt a little out of it. I wasn't sure what to say. In the end I said I would maybe meet up with them for the day. I know it's important to reach out in order to try and keep the relationships I do have. They're very nice people. I'm just not always sure how to practice self-care at the same time...