i was wondering if anyone can relate or can give some useful advice. i have been involved in a relationship for 2 years and we have been engaed for 1 year. the first year was absolute bliss and the next year almost led to hell. i broke it off with my fiance due to all of the problems we were having but he genuinely said that he was sorry and that he couldn't live without me, etc. etc. i love him to death and i know he loves me too, but things with us and his life (i am concerned that he may have a minor drinking problem) have gotten so bad. every few days his mood changes and i feel like i can't rely on him at all anymore. more than anything i am just so confused. he was my first REAL relationship and definetly my first love and i am so hurt by the way that things have turned out and also feel so helpless. we have fought so many battles together and then against each other. he can be so supportive and loving and then at other times he just yells and makes very prejudice comments (we are of different cultures and religions). i just don't know what to do and i would appreciate any responses.