Well..
I knew my relationship was drifting.
Rather it had a hole and was slowly sinking.. I worried about the sinking, but tried to ignore it. I had some luggage on the my relationship boat, i think I got most of it off in time because it sank last night.

I spent the time before trying to establish a support system, and do some inquiry on my thoughts. it was like I was blowing up a life raft to save me before it went under.

Communication is key, talk it out with your partner. Use "I" statements.
I wish you all the best.