PC has dynamics as real life.

And to be honest, I am not on the PC is greatest thing EVAH bandwagon. Yes, I have made some amazing friends here... but guess what I have also *amazing* enemies. I guess that is the VAT on not trying to comfort. Being myself brought me friends... but i realize not everybody is going to be my friend... so it's not even worth trying. Why waste time on people are not bad, but you don't click, talking things you don't care about, hiding your opinions for fear of upsetting them...

It takes time to come across people you will click with. Often times when I am in the chat room with people i already know, I talk to them and I am not in mood for meeting stragers. Rude? About as rude as going to pub and than sitting with a good friend while exchanging only short politness with others.