I don't drive by "secretly", but I do understand the desire to be close to one's T between sessions, to remember the connection. Sometimes I do have to drive by T's office for reasons other than having a session there (it is on the route between my PNP and my school), and I do feel a little twang of "good" and "connection" when I go by. It's nice. Also, when I drive the freeway to school, if it is a sunny and clear day, I can look across the lake and spot T's office building on the other side, and that makes me feel good too.

I think if you're in the part of town where his office is for your relay, it is fine to do a driveby. Feel the connection. Go for it.

How did the Relay for Life go? Hope you got a lot of donations for the cause.