The only thing you have written in here that I'm really not comfortable with is the threatening. Some of what you wrote sounds like you are expecting us to be abusive and that's not really giving us a chance. And saying "watch out" just seems a little mean for something that hasn't even happened yet. I agree to contact the moderators if something does happen but don't jump to conclusions saying things like "it's not abusive (yet)" like it will automatically happen. Give people here a chance.