Hey Swimmergirl,

I wish I knew the answer to this as I very much struggle with it myself and even though I have come a very long way in the past 2-3 years, I still struggle with feelings of attachment and dependancy.

I think perhaps the more you heal and become stronger then you can deal with the seperation anxiety better, even when it hurts but i am not sure if there is a way to make it go away...I wish there was.

xxxx