Thank you all so much for your varied feedback. I meant to write here earlier today and then got so busy. It made me feel better to read everyone's replies. Just to have some validation of our feelings and some feedback and some reality checks was good. Thank you.
I kept really busy today, and the inside kids made her a card, we kept busy with my husband and around the house which helped.

We did FINALLY get some texts from our T late tonight! She said she's ok and things will calm down after next week.She doesn't expect to work next week. But we can still e-mail & text her even if she isn't able to reply. T said to let the inside kids know she's been thinking of them. So its good to know she's okay. That helps.

We are doing a special journal and writing things down/drawing pictures to share when we're able to go back to therapy.

I think that it will HOPEFULLY make things easier this week to not expect to be going to therapy-- we know the stuff our T has going on this week, and she said she has to go out of town for 2 days so she's not expecting to work, so we won't have that expectation of her calling back/going to see her...does that make sense? But at least we know that we still have that connection with her and that helps.