sunrise, I agree with everything you've written in your post. I am discovering that I can love my T, feel attached to her, but not feel dependent on her. I've been trying to figure out why I feel so good since my session, and I think you've clarified it for me. I feel securely attached to her, and it's never going to go away. Just like she said she likes me very much and that's never going to change. Is it unconditional love? It feels like a warm glow inside of me!!!!

So, swimmergirl, the answer I think is yes!! I've been addicted to all of my Ts, and it's been a huge struggle to let go of any of them, but it's possible to get past that and feel like your Ts love is unconditional, which makes you less needy. It's still tentative with me, but it's tangible. So it IS possible and probable for you not to have to struggle with these feelings forever. Will you be seeing another T? I found that I felt the same feelings for each T, but each time it was a little different, and I grew more, and understood more. Good luck to you!