rainbow, it does hurt, but it would hurt anyway......I am not jealous of you at all, just glad you have a T who is doing things differently and it seems to be helping you so much.
since T took away the hugs, I have found it harder to ask others for hugs again or to feel safe asking for what I need.......my husband dismisses my feelings so often and T dismissed a way asking for what I need too, so it feels harder to ask again.......that is on me and I know it but still has come out of what T did in part......
I wish it could be for me again as it was.....but that is not to be so I may as well accept it and quit wishing or trying to find an argument that will convince T to change her boundaries!