Hi LydiaB - I'm sorry you were triggered by that topic. I'm a mom of 2 girls 9 /13 and it's shocking and concerning that children as young as 11 are having sex. It even seems more in today's society that it's becoming more casual, as opposed to being something special. I think being a virgin at your age is perfectly fine - that's your choice. I don't think it means you're undesirable or disgusting. I don't like to think of anyone in that way.

Don't let society dictate to you, when you should be having sex. Even if a person is overweight, there are men who like women this way. This is your choice and just because you're a certain age doesn't mean you're not appealing. I wish more young women would consider more carefully the decision to have sex. I love the website www.dove.ca because it fosters strong self esteem for women. Take a look at the videos under 'real beauty'. There's enough judgment in the this world, so please be kind to yourself.