There are people like you that go out of their way to comfort people for all the good reasons. In my circle of people these types are so few. Most of the people around me are smug and only look into your painful world just so they can feel better about themselves....that they are much luckier. Most men don't do this but the women....OMG...the women are ruthless with this!

Thank you for your response. Truth is, for the past 4 years or so I've been losing control over my life. From bad to worse and though I'm trying, I can't seem to overturn my situation. I'm scared.