So over the weekend she broke our plans to go on a simple hike. I told her that I been going out of my way to find things to do together. She told me that she knows that I'm not happy but that this was who she is and that if I didn't like it that I should just break up and move on but that every relationship is going to wind up like this. Naturally I was lost for words and told her that I knew who she was and that no amount of greif was enough for me to break up with her. Then we went out picked up a few board games spend the day playing them and watching movies.