I am sorry, I tried to take that last statement you made and copy and paste it, well, I cant figure that out yet. But I want everyone or you to address it again.
I read the news letter that PC put out and I read the article about the therapist that has written a book and how she deals with PTSD patients, or even other patients. Yes, she is heading in a good direction, but, it is still in a gray direction. All she is really saying is that she is willing to quietly sit there and let the patient show the broken leg and calmly talk about it and acknowledge IN A KIND WAY, that it is there.
But she is still in a GRAY AREA HERE. Yeah, it is a better method, but it is still gray. I could see that what she is saying is exactly what I am doing in my own way and the way I use PC. I did take comfort in that. But I am still only just KINDLY looking at the broken leg. I have to be honest the next step is sort of on the tip of my tongue but I don't have it yet.
I am still a work in process, the leg is not yet fixed.
I hear you Troy, I understand about having friends, yet not having friends.
They can't get it, not the way you need them too and you know it, so that is why the only thing that can take place is the arms length. But, I know that it is a part of the process, and it is ok, don't feel bad, somehow, I know it is normal, normal to the injury. So don't worry, don't beat yourself up over it. I know its on the tip of my tongue, I am not there yet, all I can say is don't beat yourself up, IT IS NORMAL TO THE INJURY.
Open Eyes
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