ariel

i am in no way trained or knowlegable enough to give advice on what is obviously such a tense and possibly dangerous situation (even if it is no immediate danger in a violent sense, there certainly is a lot at stake here for the future wellbeing of you and your son)

but just wanted to offer some encouragement that hopefully it is a good sign that he said he would do therapy every 3 weeks. hopefully it means that he knows there is a problem and at least some part of him wants to deal with it, so maybe his previous refusal to go was more a sign of frustration and confusion than of denial or "giving up"

as i said, with me being nothing more than a (hopefully) supportive member here i can't say if my hopes are on track or way off base, but hopefully with continued therapy there might be some ongoing road toward improvement here. best of luck and i hope everything turns out ok.

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