This question resonated with me, because when I started therapy I was overly obsessed with my T, and behaved inappropriately on a number of occasions. She was more than patient with me -- frankly, I don't know how she put up with my behavior. But one thing she really did feel strongly about was that she did not want me intruding on her family.

So, that was my experience about what one very dedicated, kind and caring T would and would not put up with.

Good luck with this.

-Far