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Right now, you're experiencing the "high" of the new relationship -- the fireworks and the newness of the "love affair." But believe me, it WILL wear off and you will be filled with guilt and remorse once you start thinking about what you've done and what you've thrown away. If you do meet this man and take the risk of losing your son, then you'd better be prepared for the result. It WILL end in great sadness -- it's very possible you'll lose your son, and this "affair" may not end up the way you want it. Then you will have lost everything.
And how are you so sure this man wants to "marry you?" Maybe he just wants to have a good time for awhile, and that's it. Just because he tells you some stuff over the phone doesn't mean a darn thing. He's safe that way. If you gave everything up and went flying to his side -- it could be something all together different. If you took your son with you, who's to say he would accept your boy? What kind of life would it be for your son without his dad? He'd be miserable, and he would probably resent you for splitting up the home.
You'd better think long and hard before you do anything like this. It comes with alot of repercusions. Take care. Hugs, Lee
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