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Old May 09, 2011, 09:18 PM
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I think you will be fine--you have come much further than some of us did at your point in life, in understanding your depression and its nature, and your need for aniti-depressives. I think your husband will rally to your side again, when he understands your depression is highly treatable and that you will live most of your life quite well. My hubby and I are going for couples counseling now. I am the seriously depressed, but our T tells hubby he is the one with psychological problems--I am quite sane and dealing realistically with my life. Need antidepressants, yes, but hubby is more in need of therapy as he has conflict phobia and runs away from life and problems that are largely of HIS making. T feels hubby is mostly to blame for our marital problems, although I do need to express and control my anger better. So I have a couple of things to work on, but we spend most of our sessions working on hubby and his behavior.

Good luck to you--do write back and tell us how you are doing!