I recently ended my 8 year active duty military career and joined the reserves. Which I hate with a passion. Nothing aggravates me more than people getting paid to do nothing. I have no job and nothing to do other than clean the house. I stay in the house because I can control that. Oh yeah I have weaned myself off Effexor because my husband and I would like to have a child and I do not want to contribute to any abnormalities by being on meds. This is not to say they are bad, but my problems should not be my child's. I wanted to cope before I actually got pregnant. I am really just looking for someone to talk back and fortn with about my daily struggles.