Thanx to all who have responded to this post. i do understand and i dont wanna be misuderstood. i love all aspects of p.c, its a wonderful place to be, i've made great friends here in just 12 days. The chat is where i go just to talk to someone, to recive good advice and maybe give it and sometimes just to relax amoung others and have some fun. I know that p.c members are cool( all p.c members are cool ), i love you all. Now i'm aware of the rules better, i can navigate better. It just came as a shock when i "realised" the rules Its a deep place to be inside p.c, i wll not give up, thats what p.c has done for me already, given me some confidence back. I'm constantly learning, all the time. I thought i stopped learning a while ago, obviously not so, i'm glad of that, to stop leaening is to be numb inside, it also makes one arrogant. I need to be told i dont know everthing, i need to keep learning, that is what life is for myself, a journey of dicovery, all the way to the end of time if need be. Thank you all. Lots of Loves. sanada. xx